I think a more important question than should the curriculum
address controversial issues is how curriculum should address controversial
issues. While it might make some teachers or parents more comfortable to avoid
certain issues, it leaves important gaps in student’s education, and can affirm
negative views on the topic by labeling them as taboo. As adults, Joel Burns
reminds us that “it is never acceptable for us to be the cause of any child to
feel unloved or worthless.” I think most teachers would take this statement as
a given, but sometimes the way we overlook issues in our curriculum or even
within the classroom contributes (even if it’s unintentionally) to a child
feeling less loved or worthy. Creating opportunities for dialogue about touchy
issues and having clear expectations about what is and isn’t appropriate
language to express can go a long way towards showing struggling kids that they
do matter and deserve to be treated
with respect.
Curriculum has gone a long way to correct oversights of this type
with issues like women’s and civil rights, but is still lacking in other areas,
and in some cases seems to even be taking a turn in the opposite direction. The
“Don’t Say Gay” bill, now called the “Classroom Protection Act” is back in
Tennessee. The bill would forbid discussing “anything inconsistent with natural
reproduction” in grades K-8. Honestly I don’t know how this can be completely
avoided. Students with same-sex parents wouldn’t be able to talk about their
families in the classroom in the way other children do. Instead of teachers
finding ways to make students feel comfortable discussing diversity, it takes
this away completely.
Tammi Shulz, a parent opposed to lessons in tolerance as a part of
school curriculum, claims, “I just don’t think it’s great to talk about homosexuality
with five year olds,” and many parents echo her concern that children shouldn’t
be exposed to such issues at such young ages. Something that Mary Cowhey reminds
readers in her essay on “Creating a gay-and lesbian-friendly classroom” is that
“We are not talking about ‘sexuality’ when we discuss gay and lesbian issues
any more than we are discussing sexuality when we read Cinderella or any other
story with all heterosexual characters.” While some parents still may not feel
comfortable with their children discussing these issues at an early age, they
can’t keep them in a bubble, and chances are good that at some point their
child will meet a student who has a non-traditional family. Parents generally
treat their children to share, to play nicely with their classmates, to treat
others as they’d like to be treated, and they should want their children to
learn to extend those values to all of their classmates, regardless of their
background. This means having “controversial” discussions with young kids.
One of the big ways (unrelated to curriculum) that teachers fail
students is by failing to react to homophobic name-calling. Leonore Gordon
claims that “if adults criticize other forms of name-calling but ignore antigay
remarks, children are quick to conclude that homophobia is acceptable,” much in
the same way that when we fail to recognize something in our curriculum
children are likely to conclude that it is unimportant or unacceptable. This is
an area that I am struggling with this year. I have a class of mostly ninth
grade boys who see it as their mission in life to taunt each other more than
the others. I have tried to be clear with them that it’s unacceptable, but it’s
so constant with them, their first reaction after anyone says anything is to
ridicule him, that if I stopped to address every single comment I would never
get anything else taught. I guess it comes down to how important it is that I
teach these boys to respect each other, but this area has me frustrated this
year. They are all friends, and don’t see why it’s not okay for them to talk to
each other like that, it’s like it’s all a big joke to them (and to their
parents.)
My school, like others, made a push to promote anti-bullying and
spread awareness about doing the right thing and standing up for people who are
being bullied. All of the 9th graders participated in a Rachel’sChallenge event, and we showed videos and had discussions in homeroom, but none
of that seems to have made a difference with these kids. I guess it’s an
example of disjointed curriculum attempt that’s not integrated into student’s
lives so they don’t take hold of it.
Another area I had never considered is talking about HIV/ AIDS at
school. I’m almost to the end of my master’s with a focus on multicultural
education and had never read anything on this topic. It fits well with homosexuality,
because again the issue many parents are afraid of is talking about sex, and
the (unfounded) fear that talking about it will somehow make kids more likely
do it. The Silin article brings up problems with The New York State AIDS
Instructional Guide, which breaks down talking about HIV/AIDS in the classroom,
starting with how it isn’t transmitted in 4-6 grades, and not talking about how
it is transmitted until 7-8 grades.
This could be confusing, for kids, but talking about how it’s transmitted means
talking about sex, and I can understand why parents aren’t comfortable with
their 9-12 year-olds talking about that outside the home.
I remember when my little sister’s 4th grade class read The
Giver, and my mom was uncomfortable with some of the references in the book. I
can only imagine how she would have reacted to my 4th grade sister
learning about the transmission of AIDS at school. Some parents (my mom being
one of them) want their kids to hear about things from them; parents like Tammi
Shulz are worried that the views expressed at school might not line up with the
values the family wants to impart on the child. I think both parents and
teachers have to recognize, that with the reality of our current time things
have changed, and what we consider to be an age of innocence might need to
change to protect kids in the long run. If teachers handle topics with
discretion and parents stay involved and continue the dialogue at home we can
benefit from controversy in the curriculum, remembering, as Silin put it, that “not
all knowledge is about control.”